Comments on: Divorce…only to remarry? http://these-words.org/2008/03/18/divorceonly-to-remarry/ Wed, 04 Jan 2012 22:09:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.2 By: kalen http://these-words.org/2008/03/18/divorceonly-to-remarry/comment-page-1/#comment-311 kalen Wed, 19 Mar 2008 19:09:51 +0000 http://these-words.org/2008/03/18/divorceonly-to-remarry/#comment-311 my church that is marrying my fiance and i actually had a testimony in their booklet about a man & woman who had gotten married, divorced, and remarried & were now happier than ever. i think a lot of people get a divorce because they get scared. they think there's no way that person could be their soul mate if they're fighting so much, etc. and society tends to romanticize love & not actualize it, so people have it worked up to be all butterflies & glitter when in reality, there are some really hard times in most relationships. i think age also has a lot to do with it in some circumstances. well maybe not age as much as maturity - but statistics show the older you are when you get married, the better chance you'll stay together. i think you learn that things don't have to be perfect to be perfect... if that makes sense :) with that being said, you can find comfort in the fact that i never plan on divorcing then remarrying my FI! lol :P my church that is marrying my fiance and i actually had a testimony in their booklet about a man & woman who had gotten married, divorced, and remarried & were now happier than ever.

i think a lot of people get a divorce because they get scared. they think there’s no way that person could be their soul mate if they’re fighting so much, etc. and society tends to romanticize love & not actualize it, so people have it worked up to be all butterflies & glitter when in reality, there are some really hard times in most relationships.

i think age also has a lot to do with it in some circumstances. well maybe not age as much as maturity – but statistics show the older you are when you get married, the better chance you’ll stay together. i think you learn that things don’t have to be perfect to be perfect… if that makes sense :)

with that being said, you can find comfort in the fact that i never plan on divorcing then remarrying my FI! lol :P

]]> By: Amanda http://these-words.org/2008/03/18/divorceonly-to-remarry/comment-page-1/#comment-309 Amanda Tue, 18 Mar 2008 18:21:02 +0000 http://these-words.org/2008/03/18/divorceonly-to-remarry/#comment-309 That is a bit weird, completely agree. I'm not sure I'd want to keep in contact on a friends basis with someone I was to get divorced from... it's odd. That is a bit weird, completely agree. I’m not sure I’d want to keep in contact on a friends basis with someone I was to get divorced from… it’s odd.

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